My man takes phone calls during sex

I find this quite crushing. Is anything more important than my sexual needs? The other night we were just getting intimate when his rotten handset started buzzing.

I instinctively snapped: "Leave it" - and could see that he was instantly distressed.

Seconds later it was clear that someone had left a message and he couldn't let it go.

Now I'm furious with him all over again for taking more calls all through a special hotel break I organised last weekend.

He had his phone in his hand the whole time and I was left on my own for hours on end.