Edit your friends

Jan 14, 2013

Recently as I slept in my ordinary bed on just an ordinary night; I had a vision! That one day, I am going to be the next Sonia Gates. (As in wealthy like him, not married to him... PESSIMIST!)

By Sonia Mukundane

Recently as I slept in my ordinary bed on just an ordinary night; I had a vision! That one day, I am going to be the next Sonia Gates. (As in wealthy like him, not married to him... PESSIMIST!)


Who said that one has only to be, old, royal, a celebrity, born to a wealthy family or lucky, to be rich? (If you’re among the few who are in the above category, good for you, this is for the rest of the population that is not) Ahem.


 To have SWAGG one has got to have wealth; not from hoping to be included on some rich relative’s will or corruption, If you know what I mean. But from fully maximising your potential. In with work smarter, out with work harder.


So, because of my profound love for our country (God bless me). I am with pleasure going to share my step by step secrets as to how I will make it with you, so that when you are millionaires and I am a billionaire. There is plenty of first world development in our country. Its OK you can thank me later.

Secret 2
Edit your friends


Did you know that we are an average of the five people we spend most of our time with?  That’s right. Think of the five people you are usually around, their characters, beliefs and achievements…you are their average!

So if you have five friends; Simon the drunkard, James the video game addict, Moses the smoker, Ben the thief, Suzan the gossip and Peter the idler, I hate to even think what the average of all that makes you.

The people we spend most of our time with influence our way of thinking, and the decisions we make. That is why there is a saying; ‘show me your friends, then I’ll tell you who you are’.

If we want to be young and rich, we have got to think and act like successful individuals. There is no way we shall do that if we are always with friends who party 24/7, whine about being broke, gossip, de-tooth, generally not being productive.

I’m not saying (though it’s not an entirely bad idea), that you should start sending the likes of Sudhir and Bitature pen pals, no.

What I am trying to say is that no matter whom they are and where they come from, surround yourself with friends who are positive, want what is best for you, believe in your capabilities and generally add value to you as you learn from them and they from you.

If currently, you have friends who are negative, don’t just walk away from them, no. RUN for your life! Are you running yet? Good, run faster! Get a good place to hide where you can be alone for a while and I’m going to give you a set of new rules to follow from now on.

Remember we are trying to edit your life…out with the unproductive and time wasting, in with the productive and focused towards getting closer to your big Goal. Read these rules aloud to yourself and let them be your guide from now on.

1. I will realize that my failures are in my past. They’re gone, old news. I’m not going to dwell on them or beat myself up over them. Today is a new day and I’m going to make a fresh start! I will simply learn from my mistakes and forge on ahead!

2. I will not worry or panic about any situation, as that will not help matters at all; it will only slow me down. If I come across any problems or challenges, I will spend little time focusing on the problem and spend most of my time focusing on the solution!

3. I will also realize and keep reminding myself that every problem, every challenge has within it the seed of a new opportunity!. And that’s what I will focus on - the opportunities.

4. I will from now on spend my time focusing only on success, optimism, solutions, and on moving forward.

5. I am going to keep the negative people out of my life and make friends who add value to me.

6. I will remind myself that all this is totally doable! There are people out there with much less intellect and resources than me that have created amazing successes. If they can do it, I can definitely do it! All I need is to take action, pay attention to where I’m heading, improve accordingly, and be persistence!

7. I will realize that this world really is a place of abundance. Just look around. I’ve got the entire Internet at your disposal! And as if that were not enough, you’ve got public libraries full of information and knowledge, and people who have made it. It’s all mine for the taking. I’ll put it to good use!
 

And finally, Every morning, before I do anything else, I will remind myself of the above.
My goal is success and that’s all I’m going to focus on. Failure is not an option. If anytime during the day, I begin to feel down, I will go through the above list again and get back in touch with what’s real.
 

Every night, before falling asleep, I will visualize myself as having already reached my goals, as clearly and vividly as I can. I will also get in touch with all the feelings that go with that visioan and really enjoy the experience. I will see myself exactly as I want to be, living the life that I want to live, and enjoying the things and experiences that I want.
 

This is my primary focus from now on.
In the next 6 days use them to edit your life, start with the little things then you’ll be ready for SECRET 3 next Saturday.
Good luck my upcoming MILLIONAIRE.

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