Help! I am cheating on my husband

RELATIONSHIPS & DATING

I am married to a polygamous man with four children. I have been in this relationship for over 15 years. I am going through a terrible time with my husband, who is in and out of his jobs because of alcoholism and laziness.

My husband never wants to hear that I have money. The moment he learns about it, we lose peace.

Quarrels and fights come up because he wants me to give him the money and yet he spends all his money on alcohol and women. I struggle with the house chores and the children's welfare.

I have been forced to have a number of extra-marital affairs so as to get money, something he does not know about. When I get this money, I give him some, to keep the marriage.

Unfortunately, I recently lost my job. When I refused to give him money a while back, he became so angry that he no longer cares about me and the children.

When the children try to call him, he never picks their calls. I am tired of this lifestyle and I want to tell him what he has pushed me to do.

The man I am currently having an affair with wants to take me up with all my children.

Please advise me. 

Harriet