Should I get a divorce?

DILEMMA | RELATIONSHIPS

My husband of eight years and I separated a year ago because he was unfaithful. While we were separated period, I gave him an ultimatum to change his ways lest I get a divorce.

My husband was having an affair with his sister's friend and got her pregnant.

I thought he would reform and we work on our marriage, but I have been told he has moved in with the other woman.

He no longer communicates and has abandoned our two children. When my parents confronted him, he said I was the one who pushed him away.

I am wondering whether I should get a divorce. My problem is raising two children without a father. What should I do?

Nancy