When your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer or there is a sudden interest in appearance.
Signs to confirm your spouse is cheating
Cheating, or infidelity, is one of the more challenging problems that can come up in a marriage. In most cases, even when you confront your partner with accusations of cheating, it will be denied or you will be made to feel like the "crazy one." Unless you have hard evidence or irrefutable proof, most will not admit it! There are many behaviors that are indicative of an affair.
Here are some warning signs that a spouse may be cheating on you:
Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.
Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
There is considerably less intimacy or connection in your relationship.
Your sex life is practically non-existent
Or, there are lot's of new things introduced into sex that were never before
Your spouse has a low self-esteem
Your spouse doesn't show any jealousy about you, no matter what you say
You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about him or her self
Your spouse has become lazy, especially around the house
Your spouse is more negative
Your spouse becomes more critical of you
Your spouse seems to be picking fights more often
You can't get your spouse to communicate with you (stonewalling)
Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs
Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual
Your mate is working longer hours at work
Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer or there is a sudden interest in appearance
You notice charges on credit card statement that don't make sense
You are aware of different scents of cologne or aftershave lotion on your spouse's clothes
Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays
You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things
Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you
The words "I love you" are not spoken by your spouse any longer
He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore
You can't even get your mate to fight with you
You feel as if you are being avoided
Your partner abandons religious faith
Your spouse seems more secretive
You discover lipstick smudge on shirt
You learn that you have an STD and you have not strayed
When you ask for reassurance about cheating, you do not feel satisfied with the response