Why has he asked for space when I need him the most?

Feb 07, 2017

When he got home the next day he announced he wanted some space and time out via a text. He didn’t know when he was going to come again! That’s really upset me. He was the one who chose to come so often and now I feel abandoned especially as I don’t feel well.

I have been seeing my boyfriend for 8 months now. There have been some issues along the way but things seemed to have got better and he wanted to spend a lot of time here. Things were looking good. Then I became poorly with a chest infection. He made sure I got to the doctor ok.

When he got home the next day he announced he wanted some space and time out via a text. He didn't know when he was going to come again! That's really upset me. He was the one who chose to come so often and now I feel abandoned especially as I don't feel well.

He says our relationship is ok and told me to chill and has barely spoke to me. I don't know what to do? I think he wants out and this is the only way he can do it. He's 59 years old and not an immature youngster. What can I do as it makes feel so insecure?!

 

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