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How do I confront my cheating husband?

Using a fake Facebook account, I started chatting with my husband and in no time, he started talking about sex with me. I told him I am a married woman and he said he was not married, but was cohabiting with his long-term girlfriend who was bad in bed.

He asked me to meet him at a hotel, but I never showed up. He also told me about two other women he loved, but were far away and how he wants to leave his live-in girlfriend (that is me his wife). I am too afraid to confront him. How do I go about it?

 
  ADVICE CHICK RESPONDS 

What do you hope to achieve with this evidence?

Poor woman, so you went to a lot of trouble to gather this evidence. What will you do with it? The FBI (by the way they would be proud of you) would call this ‘entrapment’ and would then proceed to prosecute your husband. But that is not what you want, is it?

When you confront him with the evidence, he might just laugh it off as a prank, innocently having fun on social media. Or he might say he really does not like you and wants to move on. Have you heard of the saying that if you look really hard for something you will find it?

(Advice Chick appears in the Beat Pullout of the New Vision newspaper every Friday)



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