Would you seduce a man?

By Carol Kasuja

Blame it on modernity or moral degeneration, but these days, women are always running in circles to ensure that men notice them, breaking the age-old practice of waiting for men to make the first move. But how do they achieve this?

Sexy clothing
Women discovered that men are visual creatures and want to see curves and assets. These days, they wear provocative clothes.

Scent
A woman who wants to get attention from a man wears one type of perfume and makes it a point to pass by that man every day. In the end, the man subconsciously starts associating the perfume with the person. Before you know it, he is in love with the perfume and then its owner.

Dancing
These days, girls dance like strippers, lick their fingers, rub their bodies, play with their hair and shake their butts. Such moves on the dance floor will make a potent man crazy with anticipation and desire.

Flirting
Men, no matter their age, love charming women. Girls are also aware that men are excited to flirt with them. They make themselves available by wearing plastic smiles and pretending to be warm and approachable.

If the man feels special and needed, he will want to hang around this girl all the time. This kind of seduction is common with young corporates and university girls.

Acting with sympathy
Many men live stressful lives with pressure to perform weighing them down. One successful seduction technique women have learnt is to position themselves as the ones who always listen and comfort them during stressful times.

Money
Working class and desperate women are good at this tactic. Even if they do not have a lot on their account, they will always act like they have millions in the bank to make the man feel secure that if he takes her, he will not have to foot the bills alone. When a man takes such a woman for a date, she will pay for the drinks and even give him some upkeep.

Confidence
Being confident with yourself will attract someone special. These are times when men have replaced beauty with smart brains when choosing partners.

What do men say?

Meddie Ssentongo, businessman
“Most of us want to be seduced, but society makes it hard for women to seduce us. Personally, I would appreciate a woman who seduces me because I will know that she loves me and I am special to her. There is nothing wrong with a woman who expresses her feelings. It means she is confident and I like confident girls.”

Coco Finger, musician
“When a woman seduces me, it makes me feel like I am slow. If I realise that you are trying to seduce me, I will tell all my friends how a beautiful chic is trying to win my heart. Such moves are made by desperate women and prostitutes.

Mendo Museveni, comedian
“Naturally, men are hunters; we do not want to be hunted. I need to be in charge of everything and I have to ask her out, not her forcing me to fall in love with her. If you settle and marry such a woman, she will brag that she is the one who showed you light and she will not respect you as her man. I think less of women who try hard to win men.”

Malcolm Muyinda, a radio presenter
“I would respect a woman who seduces me because I like women who know what they want. Who lets such an opportunity pass by? Sometimes men are lazy, but if a woman gives me the green light, I will go for her. That is one way of getting easy sex.”

Hassan Kamoga, barber
“There is nothing wrong with a woman seducing a man. It has never happened to me, but I would like it if someone did it. I think such women are strong and charming.”