10 things you must do in 2010
Jan 01, 2010
IT’S that time again when we make resolutions; when we vow to be better people and to accomplish those things we wanted to do for the last God-knows how many years.
By Carol Kezaabu
IT’S that time again when we make resolutions; when we vow to be better people and to accomplish those things we wanted to do for the last God-knows how many years.
We should resolve to have better relationships, take care of ourselves better and grow spiritually, financially and overcome hurdles life has.
Fall in love
They say that love moves mountains and that it is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. So if you are missing that special someone in your life, this is the year to find love.
It is the greatest feeling and when you find him, you will know that he is the person that you want to share your life and have children with. Go out of your way to meet new people.
Even if you are already married, you can fall in love again with your spouse. Has the relationship run of steam? Rekindle the love. Find new activities that you can do together.
Get a thorough medical check up
Many women spend all their time taking care of their families that they forget about themselves. When was the last time you had a medical check up.
This should be number one on your to do list of 2010. It is recommended that you get a check up every year so don’t wait for the illness. Do you know your HIV status?
Go with your partner and get tested. Have you had a Pap smear test or a mammogram? Early cancer detection can save your life.
Learn a skill that makes you self-reliant
Make a point to learn a skill that adds value to you. Remember it is never too late to learn something new. Are you hopeless in the kitchen or have you not polished up your driving skills?What about taking those French lessons?
Nurture your relationships
Do you get so caught up in your life that you are neglecting old friends and family? This is the year to reconnect with old friends and to develop new friendships.
Call your friends instead of texting them, even better, visit them. Have you fallen out with friends? Make it a point to reconcile with at least one of your enemies.
Holding grudges is a very unhealthy way to live. What is even worse is that the person you are holding a grudge against is probably not even thinking about you.
Give back
A great poet said that you give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give. Giving back to society is the greatest gift of all.
Join a charity this year or volunteer with a community project so that you can touch the people around you. You can join the Rotary Club or visit an orphanage.
Don’t dream it, do it
Don’t be afraid to take a risk because only then you can achieve the things that you dream of. Make 2010 the year of bringing your dreams to life. Is it time to let go of that abusive relationship? Stop wishing for things to get better and instead take control of your life and get out.
Get him to marry you
How long will you wait to go from girlfriend to wife? Is he dragging his feet? Get him to propose to you this year. It is good to let him know what you expect so that you don’t waste your time. Tell him you cannot wait to have his children. Let him know that you do not need a big wedding to be happy.
Exercise
You need to care for yourself so you can care for those around you. Take up jogging at least three times a week or join a gym if you can afford it. Taking a walk every other evening is also good exercise. You will be stress free, less bulky and you can get your friends to join you.
Relax, relax, relax.
Have a no-work day at least once a month. Take some time to reflect.
Find your own unique style
While everyone else is trying to fit in the mould of the contemporary style goddess, it is time for you to discover your own style regardless of whether it is current or old school. Focus on what makes you comfortable.
IT’S that time again when we make resolutions; when we vow to be better people and to accomplish those things we wanted to do for the last God-knows how many years.
We should resolve to have better relationships, take care of ourselves better and grow spiritually, financially and overcome hurdles life has.
Fall in love
They say that love moves mountains and that it is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. So if you are missing that special someone in your life, this is the year to find love.
It is the greatest feeling and when you find him, you will know that he is the person that you want to share your life and have children with. Go out of your way to meet new people.
Even if you are already married, you can fall in love again with your spouse. Has the relationship run of steam? Rekindle the love. Find new activities that you can do together.
Get a thorough medical check up
Many women spend all their time taking care of their families that they forget about themselves. When was the last time you had a medical check up.
This should be number one on your to do list of 2010. It is recommended that you get a check up every year so don’t wait for the illness. Do you know your HIV status?
Go with your partner and get tested. Have you had a Pap smear test or a mammogram? Early cancer detection can save your life.
Learn a skill that makes you self-reliant
Make a point to learn a skill that adds value to you. Remember it is never too late to learn something new. Are you hopeless in the kitchen or have you not polished up your driving skills?What about taking those French lessons?
Nurture your relationships
Do you get so caught up in your life that you are neglecting old friends and family? This is the year to reconnect with old friends and to develop new friendships.
Call your friends instead of texting them, even better, visit them. Have you fallen out with friends? Make it a point to reconcile with at least one of your enemies.
Holding grudges is a very unhealthy way to live. What is even worse is that the person you are holding a grudge against is probably not even thinking about you.
Give back
A great poet said that you give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give. Giving back to society is the greatest gift of all.
Join a charity this year or volunteer with a community project so that you can touch the people around you. You can join the Rotary Club or visit an orphanage.
Don’t dream it, do it
Don’t be afraid to take a risk because only then you can achieve the things that you dream of. Make 2010 the year of bringing your dreams to life. Is it time to let go of that abusive relationship? Stop wishing for things to get better and instead take control of your life and get out.
Get him to marry you
How long will you wait to go from girlfriend to wife? Is he dragging his feet? Get him to propose to you this year. It is good to let him know what you expect so that you don’t waste your time. Tell him you cannot wait to have his children. Let him know that you do not need a big wedding to be happy.
Exercise
You need to care for yourself so you can care for those around you. Take up jogging at least three times a week or join a gym if you can afford it. Taking a walk every other evening is also good exercise. You will be stress free, less bulky and you can get your friends to join you.
Relax, relax, relax.
Have a no-work day at least once a month. Take some time to reflect.
Find your own unique style
While everyone else is trying to fit in the mould of the contemporary style goddess, it is time for you to discover your own style regardless of whether it is current or old school. Focus on what makes you comfortable.