Bobi Wine, musician
Fortunately my wife does not have former boyfriends. I was lucky enough to be the first guy she knew and has known ever since. If this was not the case, however, and she kept those pictures and letters, I would be very disappointed.
Fortunately my wife does not have former boyfriends. I was lucky enough to be the first guy she knew and has known ever since. If this was not the case, however, and she kept those pictures and letters, I would be very disappointed. I would not destroy them but I would find a way of dealing with it, depending on what kind of relationship they had.
Sanjay Tanna, Tororo
It depends. If she had told me about him then it would be a different story. If she had not and I came across them, it would be another story too.
Qute Kaye, musician
I found my former girlfriend with his pictures. I just moved on because it clearly showed she was still in a relationship with this person. They may not have been dating physically, but in her heart, she still loved him and I was just consoling her. I would not ask for any explanation. Just walk away.
Erias Lukwago, MP
I would do nothing about it. In life, we go through experiences that we treasure and would want to keep forever. May be she wants to remember the good times she had with him. I would not ask her to dump them because she is my wife. I would let her keep them since she treasures them.
Bonny Katatumba, entrepreneur and Ugandaâ€™s ambassador to Pakistan
I would not worry about that because in life, we go through different stages. One of the stages is the fact that she knew other men before she knew me. She chose me and I won her heart. Why would I worry about men in her past? If she is keeping them for the sake of history, I would not mind at all. I also have pictures of my former girlfriends and even though I do not know where they are now, I would not destroy them if I found them. Why then would I ask her to destroy hers? We could show them to our children and laugh about it.
Ronald Mayinja, musician
It shows that she has not settled with you. There is something lacking in your relationship. So as a man you have to do something about it.
Simeo Nsubuga, former
Police publicist Kampala Extra
My reaction would depend on whether she told me who her former boyfriend is. If she did, then it would be okay. But if she did not disclose it to me, I would naturally want to get more details. I would ask why she still has them.
James Akena, Lira Municipality MP
There is no problem with that. I value information. I lost childhood photos in 1971 and many documents in 1975. Some of these records were irreplaceable. These pictures and documents could be a part of her life that she may not want to destroy. In life, we cannot change what happened in the past. I would not do anything about it. I have no problem with it at all.
Master Robbo (real name Robert Ogwal)
I would ask her if it is that important for her to keep them and listen to her explanation. If it is for memoriesâ€™ sake, then there is nothing I can say or do about it. But if she is still in touch with him and interested in rekindling their relationship, then it is pointless to destroy the letters and photos because she still wants him.
Compiled by Rehema Aanyu
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