Banker vs student

Mar 12, 2010

I was eager and excited but not nervous. He had arrived before me but he did not come to my table until about an hour later. He said he came early to watch the proceedings.

Jackie
Where do you live?
Jinja
Occupation:
Tourism student
Star sign:
Leo
Interests:
Dancing, going to the beach
Favourite film:
Anaconda
Music:
RnB
What don’t people like about you?
I am always smiling
What do people find
attractive about you?
I am social
What would you love your mystery dream date to be?
Tall and slightly older
What makes you laugh?
Children fighting

I was eager and excited but not nervous. He had arrived before me but he did not come to my table until about an hour later. He said he came early to watch the proceedings.

He was handsome and composed. He was also tall and smart. His composure made me relax and our conversation went on smoothly.

Thomas is very social, bright and funny. He made me laugh. We talked about what we like, future goals and previous relationships. I told him I was free and had been single since January. I told him the truth because he looked honest.

By the time we left, we were friends. We even hugged before saying bye.

Was he free too?
He said his former girlfriend disappointed him late last year and he was single and searching.

So, what is the way forward?
We are friends but who knows? I gave him my number and we are in touch.

What if he suggested a love relationship?
He is free to suggest. He is a very responsible man. If he is serious and there is nothing stopping me, I would love to be his girlfriend


Thomas
Where do you live?
Mukono
Occupation:
Investment Banker
Interests:
Soccer, dancing, novels
Favourite film:
Nuns on the run
Music:
Gospel, Lingala, Slows
What do people find
attractive about you?
I am friendly
What don’t people like about you?
I am reserved
What would you love your
mystery date to be?
Slender, tall and inteligent
What makes you laugh?
Anything crazy

I decided to get there early to get acquainted with the place. I monitored all the girls who walked in and when she did I guessed that she was my date.

My first impression was that she must be a student. I did not want a student for a date; they get too excited, get a lot of attention from men and are usually not focused and realistic.

However, we really had a good time. She is very social, easy to converse with and laughed at all my jokes. She told me she was hurt in a past relationship and asked to change the topic so I think she is also very emotional.

Anything you didn’t like about her?
Apart from being a student, she was shy and could not make eye contact. I also discovered she has prejudices against certain tribes and religions.

Anything you expected her to do and she didn’t?
She was dressed casually; as if she was going to a club. I would have wanted a smarter formal outfit. But that was not very important
There was also a time she concentrated on her phone for long.

Way forward?
We shall be friends. A love relationship takes time. And she is a student. For now, it would be better for her to concentrate on her books. There is still time and I am sure she has a lot of people to see before she makes up her mind.

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