Get him to notice you
Jun 11, 2010
IN the days gone by, when a woman was attracted to a man, she only prayed and hoped for him to notice her and make the first move. However, today’s woman no longer waits for the man; she goes out and gets him. Rehemah Namukose asked women how they got him to notice them
IN the days gone by, when a woman was attracted to a man, she only prayed and hoped for him to notice her and make the first move. However, today’s woman no longer waits for the man; she goes out and gets him. Rehemah Namukose asked women how they got him to notice them
Get to know him
â€I was attracted to Suzie’s brother, but he did not know until I got closer,†Rita, 24, says. She decided the fastest way to get to know the guy better, was to become his sister’s best friend.
“I would go with her home, she would tell him to come and take us out and not before long he started paying attention to me and now we’re dating,†Rita says.
Dress sense
The only ticket to your destination as Ruth, 26, a journalist puts it is to look appealing. Says Ruth: “Men love neat women. So proud are the men that they show off these women to their friends. So if you want to attract a man, dress to get his attention.â€
However, like the fishermen say, the fish you catch is determined by the bait you use, take care that your dress attracts the right attention. Do your homework, find out what the man likes and dress accordingly.
In addition to that; Ruth says whenever you meet the man whose attention you are seeking, give him reason not to forget you. “Wear a lingering fragrance and a smile that will not get out of his mind every time he thinks about you.â€
Confidence
“I love a confident woman. I would not say ‘no’ to a woman who tells me they are interested in me,†says Jude, 22, a student at Makerere University.
He tells a story of a classmate who used to call him every night “just to say hiâ€. “This pissed me off. She was not confident enough to just tell me she was interested in me.â€
Pay attention to his woes
You thought it was only women who loved others listening to their problems? News flash ... even men like it when others lend them a listening ear. So the next time the man you want is lamenting about his philandering girlfriends, pay attention and you will discover what buttons to press to make him yours.
Listening to him will not only help you know him better but will make him get attracted to you as “a true friend†and this will quicken the whole process.
Be yourself
Rachel was attracted to a rich handsome man at a party and she did whatever possible to get his attention.
Three weeks down the road, the man knew Rachel as a third year student at campus and from a well-to-do family. Only it was not true. She used to borrow her friends’ laptops and clothes to dinners with her new catch. He later discovered the truth and called off the relationship.
Say it...
You have done all the above and the man just does not seem to notice, walk right up to him and tell him about your feelings for him. If he’s impressed, he will stay.
Get to know him
â€I was attracted to Suzie’s brother, but he did not know until I got closer,†Rita, 24, says. She decided the fastest way to get to know the guy better, was to become his sister’s best friend.
“I would go with her home, she would tell him to come and take us out and not before long he started paying attention to me and now we’re dating,†Rita says.
Dress sense
The only ticket to your destination as Ruth, 26, a journalist puts it is to look appealing. Says Ruth: “Men love neat women. So proud are the men that they show off these women to their friends. So if you want to attract a man, dress to get his attention.â€
However, like the fishermen say, the fish you catch is determined by the bait you use, take care that your dress attracts the right attention. Do your homework, find out what the man likes and dress accordingly.
In addition to that; Ruth says whenever you meet the man whose attention you are seeking, give him reason not to forget you. “Wear a lingering fragrance and a smile that will not get out of his mind every time he thinks about you.â€
Confidence
“I love a confident woman. I would not say ‘no’ to a woman who tells me they are interested in me,†says Jude, 22, a student at Makerere University.
He tells a story of a classmate who used to call him every night “just to say hiâ€. “This pissed me off. She was not confident enough to just tell me she was interested in me.â€
Pay attention to his woes
You thought it was only women who loved others listening to their problems? News flash ... even men like it when others lend them a listening ear. So the next time the man you want is lamenting about his philandering girlfriends, pay attention and you will discover what buttons to press to make him yours.
Listening to him will not only help you know him better but will make him get attracted to you as “a true friend†and this will quicken the whole process.
Be yourself
Rachel was attracted to a rich handsome man at a party and she did whatever possible to get his attention.
Three weeks down the road, the man knew Rachel as a third year student at campus and from a well-to-do family. Only it was not true. She used to borrow her friends’ laptops and clothes to dinners with her new catch. He later discovered the truth and called off the relationship.
Say it...
You have done all the above and the man just does not seem to notice, walk right up to him and tell him about your feelings for him. If he’s impressed, he will stay.