EDITOR: I have read the story of Pastor John Mulinde and his wife Sheila Jasmine. With quick money from church donations, a pastor can easily entice a very beautiful girl and remove her from Kisenyi but he cannot easily remove Kisenyi mentality from her mind.
Long-lasting marriages are not determined by the status a man holds in the born-again Church fraternity or by how many pastors attended the wedding or reception and from which countries they came.
Everything boils down to how much warmth, romance and love between the two love birds. If there is a vacuum in a holy matrimonial relationship, even a chapati seller, driver or neighbour can fill it!
Human beings are social creatures and tend to lean where the degree of bonding is greatest. Beautiful Jasmine's continuous visits to Mugisha's salon where probably Mugisha himself expertly ran his fingers through her hair during the treatment might have created a very warm bond between the two and one thing led to another.
Most ladies confess that in salons male hair dressers are more gentle than female ones. I advise Mulinde not to let nugu take charge of him. A man should only breathe fire if his wife is raped. If she voluntarily goes to another man, please let go. God has a reason for everything. Do not fight. Guards will not help. In any case, the adultery law was scrapped in Uganda some three years ago.
What business is it of the Police? Have they been bribed? Why would Jeff Mugisha send Mulinde death threats when he is the one warmly embracing Sheila? I think that is mere wolokoso. Mulinde should only reconcile with Sheila or divorce her and look for another wife. Once a woman denies you in public, what else do you want from her?
Why would Mugisha threaten Mulinde?