Why black men date white women
Jan 13, 2003
Sorry people, I bring you more ignorance from yet another white person. This is a letter written by a white woman who by some reason of insanity thinks that a black woman can actually learn something positive from her about dealing with black men! If her head was any bigger we could live on it!
Sorry people, I bring you more ignorance from yet another white person.
This is a letter written by a white woman who by some reason of insanity thinks that a black woman can actually learn something positive from her about dealing with black men! If her head was any bigger we could live on it!
But we also bring you a response to her letter from a young black prince who just had to set this woman straight.
Dear Jamie,
I am a white female who is engaged to a black male. Good-looking, educated and loving. I just do not understand a lot of black females’ attitudes about our relationship.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst black women were slim to none. He said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic and carrying too much excess baggage.
Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world.
If black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don’t they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we are out in public.
Do not be mad at us white women because so many of your men want us! Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better!
Disgusted White Girl.
Response:
Dear Jamie,
I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women.
Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighbourhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hussle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because white women are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of their insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women.
We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women.
I just want to set the record straight. I want a ‘disgusted white girl’ to know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Samuel Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women. And there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
I just do not want ‘a disgusted white girl’ to be misinformed. Stop thinking that because you are white, you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history.
It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food, how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery and had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being women. And through all this, still they rise!
It is because of the black women’s strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colours and shades that I love them. The inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women.
Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain is why I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy than snotty looks.
If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don’t you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breast with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.
Bottom Line: If I were looking for a docile woman. Someone I can walk over and control, I would give you, the white woman a call.
But unfortunately, I am looking for a virtuous woman. Some one that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles.
I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and unfortunately you do not and can not fit the bill. I guess you are just S.O.L. No offense taken, none given.
www.agoodblackman.com
This is a letter written by a white woman who by some reason of insanity thinks that a black woman can actually learn something positive from her about dealing with black men! If her head was any bigger we could live on it!
But we also bring you a response to her letter from a young black prince who just had to set this woman straight.
Dear Jamie,
I am a white female who is engaged to a black male. Good-looking, educated and loving. I just do not understand a lot of black females’ attitudes about our relationship.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst black women were slim to none. He said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic and carrying too much excess baggage.
Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world.
If black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don’t they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we are out in public.
Do not be mad at us white women because so many of your men want us! Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better!
Disgusted White Girl.
Response:
Dear Jamie,
I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women.
Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighbourhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hussle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because white women are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of their insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women.
We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women.
I just want to set the record straight. I want a ‘disgusted white girl’ to know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Samuel Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women. And there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
I just do not want ‘a disgusted white girl’ to be misinformed. Stop thinking that because you are white, you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history.
It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food, how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery and had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being women. And through all this, still they rise!
It is because of the black women’s strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colours and shades that I love them. The inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women.
Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain is why I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy than snotty looks.
If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don’t you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breast with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.
Bottom Line: If I were looking for a docile woman. Someone I can walk over and control, I would give you, the white woman a call.
But unfortunately, I am looking for a virtuous woman. Some one that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles.
I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and unfortunately you do not and can not fit the bill. I guess you are just S.O.L. No offense taken, none given.
www.agoodblackman.com