How to negotiate love test questions
CURIOSITY is a universal human weakness. That is why in a relationship, women will at some point drop a couple of questions, one at a time. As dumb as some men can be (yes, some men have a knack for dumbness), they will not realise that the questions are
CURIOSITY is a universal human weakness. That is why in a relationship, women will at some point drop a couple of questions, one at a time. As dumb as some men can be (yes, some men have a knack for dumbness), they will not realise that the questions are tests.
Beginning today, Raphael Okello brings you ways to cleverly negotiate these relationship ‘test’ questions.
Tell me about your ‘Exes’
Notice when she says ‘exes’ and not ex. Before you answer, correct her about the plural. You do not want her to know there were many more before. It may not matter, but you have to mind perception.
She could be the type suspicious of guys who have been through multiple relationships. Anyhow, by asking you about your ex (es), she wants to gauge, based on your responses, if you still have a slight candle burning for the ex.
Then she will start snooping around like a cat, to find out if you are still in touch. It is also a comparison question. She wants to know how she compares with your ex. So, do not let your mouth run off, like a sewing machine, with comments like, “Oh! She was a tigress in bed.â€
Be cocky. Tell her you only date beautiful women and that is why you are dating her. She will feel flattered and secure in her place. But, in a subtle manner, tell her your ex does not matter anymore (which should be the truth) and that you would not want to be reminded of her. But do not sound too evasive. Be calm.
Beginning today, Raphael Okello brings you ways to cleverly negotiate these relationship ‘test’ questions.
Tell me about your ‘Exes’
Notice when she says ‘exes’ and not ex. Before you answer, correct her about the plural. You do not want her to know there were many more before. It may not matter, but you have to mind perception.
She could be the type suspicious of guys who have been through multiple relationships. Anyhow, by asking you about your ex (es), she wants to gauge, based on your responses, if you still have a slight candle burning for the ex.
Then she will start snooping around like a cat, to find out if you are still in touch. It is also a comparison question. She wants to know how she compares with your ex. So, do not let your mouth run off, like a sewing machine, with comments like, “Oh! She was a tigress in bed.â€
Be cocky. Tell her you only date beautiful women and that is why you are dating her. She will feel flattered and secure in her place. But, in a subtle manner, tell her your ex does not matter anymore (which should be the truth) and that you would not want to be reminded of her. But do not sound too evasive. Be calm.