I love her so much but have no money yet
I AM in love with a girl, half Ugandan, half Indian, whom I met one and half years ago. She is the first woman in my life and has all the qualities I have been looking for in a woman.
I AM in love with a girl, half Ugandan, half Indian, whom I met one and half years ago. She is the first woman in my life and has all the qualities I have been looking for in a woman.
And, good enough, she has also taken me seriously.
However, the problem is that I have just finished my studies at the university and I have little money to facilitate her needs. What is the best way to show her that I love her even with the little I have, because sometimes she puts me on pressure?
It must feel good to be so much in love to the extent that you want to give your best to someone you love. You must have been through a lot to come to a point where you feel you have found your heart. This could be your motivation for doing all you can to please her.
However, money should not be the driving force of the relationship. Actually, women value affection much more than material things, especially if they are genuinely in love. Your physical presence is enough to show that you care. Do you treat her with respect among others? Do you value her decisions? Think about how you express yourself to her or even the words that you use when you speak to her. This alone communicates straight to her heart to show how much you love her. You may think about money, but if you have not won her heart in your favour, then you are likely to be disappointed.
You indicated that she puts you on pressure. Could it be pressure to facilitate her needs? If you love this girl and she loves you, then putting you on pressure to provide might be a check on her commitment to loving you.
Maximise on the time you share together, appreciate her for who she is and where you can, within your means, take care of her needs. You should not stretch beyond what you can afford, otherwise it becomes more of a show than a relationship. Let love grow from the heart then other things can build on that foundation. All the best.
And, good enough, she has also taken me seriously.
However, the problem is that I have just finished my studies at the university and I have little money to facilitate her needs. What is the best way to show her that I love her even with the little I have, because sometimes she puts me on pressure?
It must feel good to be so much in love to the extent that you want to give your best to someone you love. You must have been through a lot to come to a point where you feel you have found your heart. This could be your motivation for doing all you can to please her.
However, money should not be the driving force of the relationship. Actually, women value affection much more than material things, especially if they are genuinely in love. Your physical presence is enough to show that you care. Do you treat her with respect among others? Do you value her decisions? Think about how you express yourself to her or even the words that you use when you speak to her. This alone communicates straight to her heart to show how much you love her. You may think about money, but if you have not won her heart in your favour, then you are likely to be disappointed.
You indicated that she puts you on pressure. Could it be pressure to facilitate her needs? If you love this girl and she loves you, then putting you on pressure to provide might be a check on her commitment to loving you.
Maximise on the time you share together, appreciate her for who she is and where you can, within your means, take care of her needs. You should not stretch beyond what you can afford, otherwise it becomes more of a show than a relationship. Let love grow from the heart then other things can build on that foundation. All the best.