Comfort zone: Her vagina is too big
MY girlfriend of one year was away for a month. When she returned, her vagina was bigger and deeper! She said it was because she had just been in her periods. Is it true? I think she must have been cheating on me.
Dear Total Man,
My girlfriend of one year was away for a month. When she returned, her vagina was bigger and deeper! She said it was because she had just been in her periods. Is it true? I think she must have been cheating on me.
Mike
Dear Mike,
The vagina is an elastic, muscular tunnel. When the girl is excited, it grows longer and wider. When the penis enters, it lengthens to fit the penis size. The muscles contract to fit the vagina on the penis like a glove. It is these muscles which contract and grip the penis tightly during the woman’s orgasm. When the penis is taken out and the woman is no longer excited, the vagina goes back to usual size. This would have happened even if your girl was having sex with a man with a bigger penis, or she was having ‘marathon sex sessions’. Also remember that you are ‘measuring’ the vagina using your penis. It is possible, that after a month of no sex, your penis is a bit smaller than usual. Her vagina does not fit as well as it used to. Or, after a month of no sex, your girlfriend’s vagina muscles were a bit relaxed without the usual regular exercise. A combination of the two can also explain the different feeling. The period cycle may also change the relative size of the vagina. I cannot say if she cheated or not but the size of her vagina cannot be evidence. Look for more convincing indicators.
Dr. Paul Semugoma
My girlfriend of one year was away for a month. When she returned, her vagina was bigger and deeper! She said it was because she had just been in her periods. Is it true? I think she must have been cheating on me.
Mike
Dear Mike,
The vagina is an elastic, muscular tunnel. When the girl is excited, it grows longer and wider. When the penis enters, it lengthens to fit the penis size. The muscles contract to fit the vagina on the penis like a glove. It is these muscles which contract and grip the penis tightly during the woman’s orgasm. When the penis is taken out and the woman is no longer excited, the vagina goes back to usual size. This would have happened even if your girl was having sex with a man with a bigger penis, or she was having ‘marathon sex sessions’. Also remember that you are ‘measuring’ the vagina using your penis. It is possible, that after a month of no sex, your penis is a bit smaller than usual. Her vagina does not fit as well as it used to. Or, after a month of no sex, your girlfriend’s vagina muscles were a bit relaxed without the usual regular exercise. A combination of the two can also explain the different feeling. The period cycle may also change the relative size of the vagina. I cannot say if she cheated or not but the size of her vagina cannot be evidence. Look for more convincing indicators.
Dr. Paul Semugoma