Please help. I ejaculate very fast
‘BLOWING’ quickly is called premature ejaculation. It is a common problem usually experienced at the beginning of one’s sexual life. <br>
Dear Doctor,
I am 27 years old. I have been dating my girlfriend for three years and every time we have sex, I blow in a minute. I ejaculate too soon and leave my girl unsatisfied. It is stressing me a lot.
Roland
Dear Roland,
‘BLOWING’ quickly is called premature ejaculation. It is a common problem usually experienced at the beginning of one’s sexual life.
You may be tense and excited, and once the penis enters the vagina, you ejaculate. This can recur, discouraging you from sex.
Here are tips on controlling it
Discuss the problem with your girlfriend. You should not be put under pressure. Try to be relaxed and calm as you discuss the problem. Plan with your girlfriend and do not rush to make a decision.
If you ejaculate quickly, do not give up on having sex. Wait for a while and relax. You will regain the erection and be more successful at the second or third round.
Train yourself to hold on. When you are nearly coming, stop and wait, then start again. After a few weeks, you will take longer and have more control.
Squeeze sharply on the head of the penis just when you are feeling like coming. Do this during sex or masturbation and it will delay the ejaculation.
Consult a doctor for counselling. If need be, the doctor will prescribe drugs to delay ejaculation.
I am 27 years old. I have been dating my girlfriend for three years and every time we have sex, I blow in a minute. I ejaculate too soon and leave my girl unsatisfied. It is stressing me a lot.
Roland
Dear Roland,
‘BLOWING’ quickly is called premature ejaculation. It is a common problem usually experienced at the beginning of one’s sexual life.
You may be tense and excited, and once the penis enters the vagina, you ejaculate. This can recur, discouraging you from sex.
Here are tips on controlling it
Discuss the problem with your girlfriend. You should not be put under pressure. Try to be relaxed and calm as you discuss the problem. Plan with your girlfriend and do not rush to make a decision.
If you ejaculate quickly, do not give up on having sex. Wait for a while and relax. You will regain the erection and be more successful at the second or third round.
Train yourself to hold on. When you are nearly coming, stop and wait, then start again. After a few weeks, you will take longer and have more control.
Squeeze sharply on the head of the penis just when you are feeling like coming. Do this during sex or masturbation and it will delay the ejaculation.
Consult a doctor for counselling. If need be, the doctor will prescribe drugs to delay ejaculation.