IF Jesus had booked in at Windsor Hotel on April 1, he would have asked all those security men: “Let anyone who has not <i>Ngarambed</i>, throw the first stone.†That is like asking Jim where the global funds went.
DR LOVE - Hilary Bainemigisha
IF Jesus had booked in at Windsor Hotel on April 1, he would have asked all those security men: “Let anyone who has not Ngarambed, throw the first stone.†That is like asking Jim where the global funds went.
It used to be women who would lose no sleep over throwing the first stone. But not anymore! Women have caught up with men in offside grazing. If you still think that Ngaiza is more guilty than Ngarambe, you are living in history. Many women have logged on the cheating site –– only that they are extremely cunning in concealing it.
All the seven judges would declare them ‘not guilty’ when, in reality, they are as chameleon as Jennipher Aryemo/ Bongomin/Okech or whatever the case may be.
But even the craftiest of women will show signs of unusual behaviour.
There are obvious ones like staying out late and being dodgy about her whereabouts or phone calls. But even in the absence of these, you can find your ballot box open. So read on and catch thieves early. You will avoid costly election petitions.
But these are not foolproof. They may be attributed to some other cause but when they apply to cheating, they can also smoke out the men. But do not clobber her on the head. Sniff the air for proof and if you find it, appraise yourself first; are you showing enough love?
Signs of a cheating wife
Her approach to sex will suddenly change. From a dormant partner, she will suddenly want a new position, become more dominant in the bedroom but a bit low on frequency. Similarly, the reverse is questionable.
She is suddenly too accommodating. She does not mind you staying out too late and actually encourages you to go for football or travel to check on the wazee in the village.
If she becomes too nice, trying very hard to please you, and she has not been like this before, it could be the guilt monster eating away at her.
Suddenly her appearance like dress or make up is so important. The slits, high heals and minis she scorned for long, find special place in her wardrobe. She skips meals to lose weight. My friend, set a road block at Abaita Ababiri
Ask her a simple question like: “What did you do today?†and she will jump on the defensive even accusing you of being possessive.
Does she move away to receive her calls as if there is no network in your bedroom?
Will she reveal too much of what happened after work including what they ate, who was there and who said what? Don’t get bored, ask yourself why she remembers all the details, it could be cram work.
She is suspecting all her friends of unfaithfulness. She also gets very interested in infidelity stories like she wants to drown her guilt in a crowd. Her stories of her cheating friend at the office could be a gauging stick of how you would react to her cheating ways.
She now feels shy to be romantic with you in public especially when the person she may be cheating with is around.
When she says she has a graduation party, she does not cajole you into accompanying her and may actually time her outings to times you cannot be available. She also puts up a fight when you suggest she drops her plans for yours.