My brother has 'my girl'

RELATIONSHIPS | GIRL TROUBLE

I met a girl about three months ago at salsa class in one of the pubs in Kampala.

I like her a lot. She is a great dancer and we literally run into each other's arms every time the dances begin and we have a lot in common. She intelligent, mature and just beautiful.

She told me she was seeing someone when I asked her about a month ago, but since the guy does not come with her, I figured I would win her over with time.

Now last weekend, my brother called me up to go meet his girlfriend at one of the restaurants in town. Guess who the girl was… ‘MY girl' from salsa.

It was a very awkward meeting. I really want to be happy for my brother, but I like this girl. They have very little in common. I have not said anything, but I cannot let him keep her.

She still comes to the dance, but of course things have become awkward between us. We dance with other people and just stare at each other from a distance. It is difficult. Please advise.

Sam