I and my husband recently had a baby and he wants to take him to see his mum.
I have said ‘no’ as she hasn't been interested through the whole pregnancy or the week he has been born and even said she doesn't care if he lives or not.
I'm not comfortable with him being there without me as I don't feel he will be safe. This isn’t an option as she isn’t speaking to me because of stuff that has happened in the past with my other child who isn't related to them. He had an allergic reaction to whatever she fed him and came home with a horrible burn on the back of the neck.
It is causing a lot of problems between me and my husband who seems to see it as my fault .
What do I do for the best?