Is my husband milking me?

 
Dear readers,

We've been married for nine years with three children.

We've had our ups and downs just like many relationships and I understand.

However, lately I have realised that my husband is on a mission to leave me penniless.

He leaves me to foot all the bills although he get much more money than I do claiming that he built the house we are living in.

I can't tell how many times he has borrowed from me or told me to borrow on his behalf and never paid.

Does this man really love me or my money?