She wants to introduce with a picture

Dear readers, my daughter found her fiancé on Facebook and physically met once when he came to Kampala for a holiday.

They want to formalize their relationship with an introduction ceremony slated for September.

Everything is in place, her fiancé sent money for preparation, but my problem is that he says he will not be able to attend in person. My daughter insists that we use his photo.

I really hate the idea because I have heard many unsuccessful stories of people who introduced their fiancés to their parents using photos.

 Many never turn up for the weddings or the relationship ends there. What do I do?