Help, I could lose my marriage
I have been married for 15 years and our colleagues call ours a ‘holy family’. We are blessed with four children aged between four and 15 years.
I have been married for 15 years and our colleagues call ours a ‘holy family’. We are blessed with four children aged between four and 15 years.
My husband and I are friends and we share with each other almost everything including our finances. I have access to his bank accounts because I keep his ATM cards.
I also feel I am doing a good job as a wife and mother. I mind what we eat as a family, I spend time with our children everyday from 6:00pm and over the weekend.
I welcome visitors who come home and make them feel at home. I wait for my husband almost everyday to serve him supper even when he returns past 11:00pm. I mind what my husband wears, I pray a lot for him, our children and marriage.
However, my sweet husband has changed since January. He shouts at me even in front of our children so much that one of our children asked him if he no longer loved me.
Recently I discovered he is involved in an extra-marital affair. What can I do? How do I handle this?
Maggie