Signs you are becoming a side dish
Jul 30, 2010
He doesn’t introduce you to his parents or any of his close relatives <br><br>He never invites or wants you to visit him at his home
He doesn’t introduce you to his parents or any of his close relatives
He never invites or wants you to visit him at his home
You believe him when he says he is fed up of his wife
He is investing heavily in you (pays rent, buys food, expensive outings) yet he has just met you
He promises you a career launch (e.g school fees) when he is neither your relative nor a charity organisation
It is after sex that he starts explaining how the relationship must be kept secret because of his public profile
You are afraid of him and of discussing pertinent issues concerning your relationship
You are in a relationship yet you hardly know anything about his job, home village, qualifications, friends, etc
More about side dishes
They are also human beings in search of fulfilling relationships. It is unwise to expect that they will keep your secret for ever
You are being unfaithful to your spouse, children and all stake-holders. It may give you temporary pleasure but there is a time bomb waiting to explode
If you cannot live with one woman, discuss the need for a polygamous arrangement with your wife, instead of risking your integrity
Your side dish will eventually discover that you are married, if you have been keeping it a secret.
If you are afraid to break the news, maybe you shouldn’t have started the affair.
You are risking HIV and other STDs. Once a person discovers they are a side dish, their motivation to remain chaste will be tested
It does not make financial sense to divide your resources between the two families. Imagine how far you could be in terms of wealth
You are not the only one making others side dishes. You may be one yourself right now without your knowledge
He never invites or wants you to visit him at his home
You believe him when he says he is fed up of his wife
He is investing heavily in you (pays rent, buys food, expensive outings) yet he has just met you
He promises you a career launch (e.g school fees) when he is neither your relative nor a charity organisation
It is after sex that he starts explaining how the relationship must be kept secret because of his public profile
You are afraid of him and of discussing pertinent issues concerning your relationship
You are in a relationship yet you hardly know anything about his job, home village, qualifications, friends, etc
More about side dishes
They are also human beings in search of fulfilling relationships. It is unwise to expect that they will keep your secret for ever
You are being unfaithful to your spouse, children and all stake-holders. It may give you temporary pleasure but there is a time bomb waiting to explode
If you cannot live with one woman, discuss the need for a polygamous arrangement with your wife, instead of risking your integrity
Your side dish will eventually discover that you are married, if you have been keeping it a secret.
If you are afraid to break the news, maybe you shouldn’t have started the affair.
You are risking HIV and other STDs. Once a person discovers they are a side dish, their motivation to remain chaste will be tested
It does not make financial sense to divide your resources between the two families. Imagine how far you could be in terms of wealth
You are not the only one making others side dishes. You may be one yourself right now without your knowledge