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Signs you are becoming a side dish

By Vision Reporter

Added 30th July 2010 03:00 AM

He doesn’t introduce you to his parents or any of his close relatives

He never invites or wants you to visit him at his home

He doesn’t introduce you to his parents or any of his close relatives

He never invites or wants you to visit him at his home

You believe him when he says he is fed up of his wife

He is investing heavily in you (pays rent, buys food, expensive outings) yet he has just met you

He promises you a career launch (e.g school fees) when he is neither your relative nor a charity organisation

It is after sex that he starts explaining how the relationship must be kept secret because of his public profile

You are afraid of him and of discussing pertinent issues concerning your relationship

You are in a relationship yet you hardly know anything about his job, home village, qualifications, friends, etc

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They are also human beings in search of fulfilling relationships. It is unwise to expect that they will keep your secret for ever

You are being unfaithful to your spouse, children and all stake-holders. It may give you temporary pleasure but there is a time bomb waiting to explode

If you cannot live with one woman, discuss the need for a polygamous arrangement with your wife, instead of risking your integrity

Your side dish will eventually discover that you are married, if you have been keeping it a secret.
If you are afraid to break the news, maybe you shouldn’t have started the affair.

You are risking HIV and other STDs. Once a person discovers they are a side dish, their motivation to remain chaste will be tested

It does not make financial sense to divide your resources between the two families. Imagine how far you could be in terms of wealth

You are not the only one making others side dishes. You may be one yourself right now without your knowledge

Signs you are becoming a side dish

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