Why women betray the men in their lives
Oct 08, 2009
EVERY time you hear that someone cheated, you automatically think it is the man that did, but women, too, cheat. Yes, they do; although for totally different reasons.
By Vision Reporter
EVERY time you hear that someone cheated, you automatically think it is the man that did, but women, too, cheat. Yes, they do; although for totally different reasons.
A woman will stick with a good-for-nothing man and take all kinds of abuse for years as long as she is in love with him. Cheating is the last thing on her mind because a relationship is for keeps and that means being faithful.
Some women have been known to go around, but these are usually not in relationships. Even that girl that has slept her way through the town will never look aside once she has found the one.
So why do women cheat?
The major reason is to get even. Women will cheat to get revenge on a cheating spouse or partner.
Diana had been with her boyfriend for two years when she found some telling messages on his phone. When she confronted him, he came clean about an affair he was having with a colleague at the workplace.
He begged for forgiveness and she was willing to forgive and forget, but she just could not. She went out with an old boyfriend and slept with him and then told her then boyfriend what she had done.
If he was willing to forgive and forget, then so would she. They parted ways in the end because the boyfriend could not take the slap in the face.
Exit strategy
“A woman will cheat if she is sick of the relationship but doesn’t know how to end it. Knowing that men will rarely forgive indiscretion, she will cheat to make you end the relationship,†says Irene.
Women too like to be cared for and if she is feeling neglected and there is another man giving her the attention she is craving, she might cheat.
Women will rarely cheat for this reason, but some have been known to do it and that is sexual boredom. In this age where women are as sexually evolved as the men, they too seek the same excitement in bed as the men do.
If you are not satisfying her in the bedroom, she will go find satisfaction elsewhere.
Men are not very emotional or they do not like to carry their emotions on their sleeves, but once you are in a relationship, you have to try and show some of those feelings because women want to feel that intimacy, that you trust them and that they are your confidant. Emotional withdrawal is one sure way to get a woman running into another man’s arms.
These are in extreme degrees because women can withstand a lot to hold on to a relationship they feel is worthwhile so if your woman is cheating, there is obviously something you are not doing right.
EVERY time you hear that someone cheated, you automatically think it is the man that did, but women, too, cheat. Yes, they do; although for totally different reasons.
A woman will stick with a good-for-nothing man and take all kinds of abuse for years as long as she is in love with him. Cheating is the last thing on her mind because a relationship is for keeps and that means being faithful.
Some women have been known to go around, but these are usually not in relationships. Even that girl that has slept her way through the town will never look aside once she has found the one.
So why do women cheat?
The major reason is to get even. Women will cheat to get revenge on a cheating spouse or partner.
Diana had been with her boyfriend for two years when she found some telling messages on his phone. When she confronted him, he came clean about an affair he was having with a colleague at the workplace.
He begged for forgiveness and she was willing to forgive and forget, but she just could not. She went out with an old boyfriend and slept with him and then told her then boyfriend what she had done.
If he was willing to forgive and forget, then so would she. They parted ways in the end because the boyfriend could not take the slap in the face.
Exit strategy
“A woman will cheat if she is sick of the relationship but doesn’t know how to end it. Knowing that men will rarely forgive indiscretion, she will cheat to make you end the relationship,†says Irene.
Women too like to be cared for and if she is feeling neglected and there is another man giving her the attention she is craving, she might cheat.
Women will rarely cheat for this reason, but some have been known to do it and that is sexual boredom. In this age where women are as sexually evolved as the men, they too seek the same excitement in bed as the men do.
If you are not satisfying her in the bedroom, she will go find satisfaction elsewhere.
Men are not very emotional or they do not like to carry their emotions on their sleeves, but once you are in a relationship, you have to try and show some of those feelings because women want to feel that intimacy, that you trust them and that they are your confidant. Emotional withdrawal is one sure way to get a woman running into another man’s arms.
These are in extreme degrees because women can withstand a lot to hold on to a relationship they feel is worthwhile so if your woman is cheating, there is obviously something you are not doing right.