Is this a long lasting relationship?

Oct 30, 2009

<b>Answering love questions</b><br><br>Curiosity is a universal human trait. That is why in a relationship, women will at some point drop a couple of questions, one at a time. As dumb as some men can be, they will not realise that the questions are test

Answering love questions

Curiosity is a universal human trait. That is why in a relationship, women will at some point drop a couple of questions, one at a time. As dumb as some men can be, they will not realise that the questions are tests. Raphael Okello brings you ways to cleverly negotiate the ‘test’ question.

Let us quickly dissect this one. She is probably 26, knows she has top notch marriage credentials and you have been together for over two years.

For all this time, you have been so comfortable in this dating zone, that you do not want to upgrade.

Fact: She is asking because she wants you to be her husband but she is beginning to suspect that she has been wasting her time with you.

Guess what, she is anxious and angry! Yes, what did you think?

Your response? If you do not want to get married to her and are expecting us to come up with some genius trick response to bail you out of this one, we are sorry. You are trapped!

Think of this question as a woman’s subtle way of proposing. Sarah Miller, a relationship columnist, says a woman who asks this question wants to know if she is getting her engagement ring. If not, you have been clowning and wasting her time and she wants to know when you are going to her place to pick up your stuff i.e.T-shirts, vests and some undergarments you ‘forgot’ there to cater for emergency sleep-ins.

“Spare her your feelings on this one,” Miller writes. “If the answer is not weighed in carats, she is not interested.”

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