How do I tell her off without embarrassing her?
Nov 29, 2011
There is this woman who is pursuing me. She is much older than I am and is a mother of three children, the eldest being in Senior One. She recently started calling me daily, including late at night.
Dear Counsellor,
There is this woman who is pursuing me. She is much older than I am and is a mother of three children, the eldest being in Senior One. She recently started calling me daily, including late at night. I thought she was just being a good friend. I also thought that she was married. I only learnt later that she had separated from the father of her children.
About two weeks ago, she told me she loved me. When I gave no response, she started claiming there was divine intervention and was convinced I was her husband no matter how much I delayed it.
She has started using underhand methods to get me and the more I dodge her, the harder she tries to get me. She has told my friends and family of our forthcoming wedding and I’m not planning to marry her. How do I tell her off without embarrassing her?
Francis Abura, Lira