Hellen Lukoma tells relatives to back off her money

Actress and singer Hellen has criticised people who blame their relatives for not extending financial support to them. She said  she has been a victim of such scenarios, with her family members always thinking she has a lot of money and is responsible for providing financial support for their children.

In a one-on-one interview with Lukoma on Friday, June 21, 2024, Lukoma stated that the money she has is enough for her and her children, not for her extended family.

"I was bothered so much by my relatives who expected a lot of money from me and always asked me to pay tuition for their children. Even if I would tell them that I do not have the money, they would not believe it. Some of them cut me off, and they no longer talk to me, which is okay. I tried with the little I had, but they never appreciated it. They think I do not have my own problems. I have enough money to meet my children’s and family’s needs, not to support relatives. I will only step in for such kind of help when God provides a little extra," she said.

The mother of two  wondered why someone would have many children they can’t take good care of, thus placing the burden on their well-off relatives and blaming them for not providing help. She urged parents to have children they can ably provide for.

"People criticise their relatives for not supporting them, but I no longer judge anyone, and I don’t expect anyone to give free money. Why would you give birth to over 20 children? For whom? Control your hormones and the distribution of sperm. I am not saying this out of bad faith, but I see a common trend of people judging their relatives for not supporting them. The blame should be put on your parents for not working hard to support you. Please give birth to fewer children and don’t beg from those who have money because when their money runs out, you will be the same people laughing at them," Lukoma said.

She also advised her fellow artistes not to spend too much on their extended family.

"It’s high time you stopped. When will you develop yourself and your family if everything you make is taken by the family? These people want to eat our money until it's finished. Personally, I have enough for me only," Lukoma said.

According to Lukoma, it's crucial for people to strive for financial independence rather than expecting family members to provide for them. She believes that self-reliance fosters a sense of accomplishment and empowers individuals to take charge of their lives.