Does she love you or your money?
Aug 29, 2012
Fred, a third-year University student vowed never to give his money to a girl, “I want the girl to go out with me for who I am, not my money.”
Fred, a third-year University student vowed never to give his money to a girl, “I want the girl to go out with me for who I am, not my money.”
This seems justified because the guy is a campuser trying to survive. But a number of guys you would consider financially comfortable, feel the same way.
So, were ladies created to take guys’ hard-earned cash? Yes and no, depending on who you talk to. Some ladies believe they have a right to your money.
Some ladies believe you asked her out because you wanted her, so you should work for it. Others say if you want to keep her, you have to maintain her!
There are others who use money as a standard. They think if a guy is willing to spend on them, then perhaps he is serious, or because he is generous with his money, he might be a good provider.
Some men believe that they want to be loved for who they are, and not their provider role. The ladies could possibly counter that they also want to be loved for who they are and not for their beauty.
The issue here is not money or beauty, it is the fine line between the roles of the sexes.
Guys, if you have a miserly streak, that is enough to scare off faint-hearted females. At the end of the day, she wants to know if you can pay the bills or give her an allowance for maintaining her hair.
Even in this time of women’s emancipation, many ladies still look at how a man responds to a restaurant bill to see how well he will handle his provider responsibilities.