My friend has rejected my proposal
Sep 17, 2010
I have a crash on one of my school friends. When I told her about it, she said she cannot fall for me. I cannot get her off my mind. What can I do?
I have a crash on one of my school friends. When I told her about it, she said she cannot fall for me. I cannot get her off my mind. What can I do?
Dear,
Your situation must be making you feel cheated. When you love someone and they don’t love you back , it makes you feel misunderstood.
You need to understand that it is not
always that you get the response you desire from someone you love. You indicated that you love this girl so much, what could it be about her that could have attracted you to this extent?
It should be something worth holding onto, especially if it is true love.
However, if she does not love you back, you cannot force love out of her heart; you just have to let go.
It may not be easy, but gradually, you could cut off association with her or possibly just be friends like before. Sometimes giving the relationship time may change certain decisions, but if you feel she has made a final decision, then move on. It does not mean this is the end of love for you, you can win the heart of someone else.
Dear,
Your situation must be making you feel cheated. When you love someone and they don’t love you back , it makes you feel misunderstood.
You need to understand that it is not
always that you get the response you desire from someone you love. You indicated that you love this girl so much, what could it be about her that could have attracted you to this extent?
It should be something worth holding onto, especially if it is true love.
However, if she does not love you back, you cannot force love out of her heart; you just have to let go.
It may not be easy, but gradually, you could cut off association with her or possibly just be friends like before. Sometimes giving the relationship time may change certain decisions, but if you feel she has made a final decision, then move on. It does not mean this is the end of love for you, you can win the heart of someone else.