He cheated, I forgave. I cheated, he won't forgive

Oct 11, 2017

I even reminded him that I forgave him under even worse circumstances, but he is adamant. I find it so selfish on his part.

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A few years ago, when I discovered that my husband was cheating on me with multiple women, the marriage almost ended. He used everything in his arsenal to convince me to stay, including calling our Best Man and Maid of Honour, our pastor, my close friends and our parents. There was even a clan meeting. I forgave him for the sake of our children and the time invested in the relationship. I love this man. We met over 15 years ago, when we were both in Senior Four. Last year, a moment of weakness led me into the arms of my prayer partner. I lived with the guilt for months, until recently when I came clean. May be I should have kept it to myself, but it was eating me up. I asked him for forgiveness and told him it would never happen again, but as I speak now, we are separated. I have done everything to show him just how sorry I am, but Paul has refused to forgive me. I even reminded him that I forgave him under even worse circumstances, but he is adamant. I find it so selfish on his part. What should I do? Angel

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