I am afraid what would happen if the two men met each other

 

Recently, he was promoted at his workplace and his behaviour changed. He no longer calls me. I tried calling him, but he would rarely take my calls. When he finally took one of my calls and I asked what was going on, he said he was too busy to keep taking my calls.

 

I accommodated his behaviour for some time until he became so busy that we would not meet even over the weekends. I confronted him about this and advised that we end the relationship.

 

A few weeks later, one of my workmates started pursuing me. I told him I had a boyfriend although we had temporarily separated, but that did not deter my workmate. We have been dating for two months now. Every day, I am falling more and more in love with my workmate as he has helped me forget the stress my boyfriend put me through. 

 

However, recently my boyfriend visited me unexpectedly at the office and he apologised for the way he treated me. 

 

He pleaded with me to reconcile with him. He even asked me to move into his home. My workmate saw me chatting with my boyfriend and he is upset with me, saying he thought I had ended the relationship with him. 

 

I am afraid what would happen if the two men met each other because I found out that they go to the same church. 

 

Secondly, I love my boyfriend although he does not reciprocate it. I also like my workmate. 

 

I am confused on whom of the two men to choose.

 

Stephanie