You can stop being a side dish

Jul 30, 2010

He deceived you and you have just learnt that he has a wife with kids. But you can get out of it. Below are tips:<br><br>First, you need to go for an HIV test and demand that he goes too.

He deceived you and you have just learnt that he has a wife with kids. But you can get out of it. Below are tips:

First, you need to go for an HIV test and demand that he goes too.

If positive, live positively as you invest in assurance of a future for your children.

If negative, demand that he uses a condom as you look for the most convenient way out. It is better you lose all and save your life

Working on getting your own independence.

Look for solutions to your encumbrances like lack of investments, a permanent house in your names and fear of the unknown. Set a deadline and jump out of the network

If you have children, demand that they be introduced to their siblings and be acknowledged officially

Don’t agree to remain the secret woman. But use the money he gives you to security your future and the future of your children

If there is no tangible benefit in remaining hidden, come out and be known. The risks of your rival’s reaction are not comparable to the doom you are heading to as the hidden dish.

It is never too late to change your life

If you really don’t want to jump out, then scheme your way into a polygamous arrangement to make your status official and share marital advantages equally (this arrangement is acceptable only if the man is married customarily or if he is Muslim)

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