How would you know your partner is cheating?

Nov 20, 2009

<b>Emily Mwebaze, musician and news anchor WBS </b><br>When he is so tight with his phone and does not put it down even for a mini second. Why wouldn’t he leave it behind or care if I held it or received his calls or read his messages?

IT is very difficult to catch your partner cheating on you. But there are indicators that may raise your suspicion. Rehema Aanyu and Aida Nanyonjo asked Connect fans what behaviour would make them suspicious of their partner

Emily Mwebaze, musician and news anchor WBS
When he is so tight with his phone and does not put it down even for a mini second. Why wouldn’t he leave it behind or care if I held it or received his calls or read his messages?

Juliana Kanyomozi, musician
When he begins holding on to his phone even when he goes to the bathroom. I would know he is hiding something and definitely it has to be a woman. Or if he begins to come back home late yet he has been returning at 7:00pm. Or if he does not eat my food and even begins avoiding me sexually and physically.

Doctor George William Wandera,
If she refuses to have sex with me without a clear reason, that means she is getting it from someone else.

Abbey Kamoga, businessman
If you have spent sometime with a woman it is easy to know her habits. The woman you used to find at home all the time begins visiting so called friends in the evening. And if I asked her and she replied rudely, with the aim of annoying me, I would be suspicious.

Twaha Ntambi, IT specialist
When she begins dodging me and does not want to meet me in public places. I would also suspect her if she cancelled our appointments. When this happens and it is contrary to her previous behaviour and she begins giving various reasons for her failure to meet me, I will know for sure that she is cheating on me.

Betty Nambooze, spokesperson, Democratic Party
A suspect would actually begin accusing me of infidelity. When someone is guilty, he or she thinks of all defence strategies. I would also suspect him if, all over a sudden, he became extra polite, trying too hard to please me and offering explanations even when they are not sought.

Tina Musuya, CEO, Centre for Domestic Violence Prevention
When he does not want to hang out with me, becomes controlling and restricts me from making my own decisions, stops me from working and interacting with other people.

Vincent Muyanja, self employed
When she begins disrespecting me yet she has been holding me in high regard. When she is ungrateful whenever I give her anything like money and she starts complaining over small things. I would also suspect her when she begins neglecting her obligations as a wife at home.

Zawedde Lubwama Lukwago, lawyer
You cannot fail to know a cheating partner if the two of you know each other and have been together for some time. If there is a sudden change in the time he returns home, it may not exclusively be that he is cheating but it lays the foundation for me to begin investigations.

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