Ask the counsellor:I fell in love with my friend, but she seems uninterested now

Jul 29, 2011

I have been extremely close to a friend who had a boyfriend, but I confessed my love for her. I have been hoping she will soon introduce me, but she seems to have no interest in me anymore. I am so depressed, I cannot sleep or eat. I am so in love and I really need your advice

I have been extremely close to a friend who had a boyfriend, but I confessed my love for her. I have been hoping she will soon introduce me, but she seems to have no interest in me anymore. I am so depressed, I cannot sleep or eat. I am so in love and I really need your advice

I sense a lot of anxiety and uncertainty in what you have expressed. You have been extremely close to this girl and sharing a casual relationship with her.

You need to understand that the decision of whether she goes back to her boyfriend, gets a new one, or sticks with you is totally hers to make.

You simply have to play your part and let her decide. She is your friend, you can feel free to share with her what you feel towards her.

The ability to share your heart or feelings with one another is what makes or breaks a relationship. Don’t assume that she can tell what you feel. Let her know what you feel towards her and then wait for feedback.

Always try to keep an open mind, things may not always turn out the way you expect. It doesn’t mean that if she walks away from you, it is the end of you. Who knows, she may come back if she is meant to be yours, or a new page may open for you to fall in love with someone else.

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