AGONY: My husband vanishes on weekends

Nov 19, 2019

I am not tight-marking him, but I believe spouses should always endeavour to update each other on their whereabouts

Dear Counsellor,

My husband is sketchy with his whereabouts and, for example on weekends, he does not communicate where he spends his time. Once in a while, I get to hear friends saying they were with him at functions he did not tell me about. I am not tight-marking him, but I believe spouses should always endeavour to update each other on their whereabouts. Am I wrong?

Anonymous, Nakulabye

Facebook responses to Anonymous' plight

Tushabe Monica Some are just boys in men's trousers, that's why they do what deems fit in their mind! Otherwise, a good husband has and will also communicate!

Amani Kruger Its just his character, some of us are like that, you don't even realise you are doing it, and no matter how many times you are told, you just can't change...so just embrace that side of him.
 
Gad Kahangire As long as he provides u everything at home and doesn't sleep out. Be calm because It's not a must to know his movements.
 
Miriam Gobi Mukwano, create your own fun and stop following mr. Men don't want to be mothered by second mums in the name of marriage.find away to sort your happiness.! Cheers
 
Mark Geraldinhe Saluvantus He might not be used to inform u always. Simply talk to him as his wife and u encourage him to inform u on some accuracies

Murungi Zainah Ateenyi Find out from him .that option of not returning home is not welcome

Henrietta Okwaks Blessed NO you're not wrong but selfish ones with sinister motives don't inform they just move out quietly
 
Mukye Pidson Da White May you respond negatively whenever he tells you 

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