My husband forbid me to use family planning

Jul 18, 2017

In my third year, I asked him to introduce me to his parents and him to mine, which he accepted but the sex never happened.

My husband and I met while in our second year at campus. He has always been a staunch Christian and wanted us to wait until marriage before we could get intimate.

In my third year, I asked him to introduce me to his parents and him to mine, which he accepted but the sex never happened.

The most we ever did was hug and hold hands, not even a kiss! I waited patiently and painfully for four years when we did our official introduction ceremony and we moved in together.

This is the third year of us living together and we already have three children.

We had our first child in February 2014. In July of the same year, I discovered I was pregnant. I gave birth to our second baby while our first child was also a baby. While our second baby was 7 months old, I discovered I was pregnant again.

My husband has a problem; he does not want us to use family planning. He says it causes cancer and will make us have children with deformities. He cannot use condoms either so we agreed to use the withdraw method which clearly is not working.

I no longer want to have sex because I'm afraid of conceiving.

What can I do to make him believe that all these things he believes about family planning are not true?

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