His indigenous ways affecting our marriage

My husband's behaviors are driving me nuts; I thought he would adjust when we get married but in vain.  

I changed my lifestyle for him but it is too much because he does not appreciate.

For him I pretended to be what I am not thinking he will eventually change because he is a young man of 32 and I'm 28 years. 

As forces me kneel down for his sisters who are younger than me. And when I complain he says I despise his family members.

He also refuses me to wear make-up; he thinks that I am trying to impress other men. He says he loves me anyway without makeup. 

Whenever we are going for a function, he has to first see what I am going to wear, if he thinks it's not appropriate, I have to change.

I even first have to consult with him on the kind of hair style.

What should I do, I am so tired of his old fashioned ways

Eunice