I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I'm 21 and he is 23. I am getting quite upset as all my friends have moved in together and are engaged but have been together for a shorter amount of time then us and yet we haven't moved in or engaged. I don't want to wait forever I want to be married and have children by the time I'm 25 which at that point he will be 27 and we still won't be married. I don't want to wait forever otherwise it will never happen but then I don't want to leave as I love him. I just get jealous and upset when I see all my friends engaged and like I said they have been together with their boyfriends for 2 years or less. Am I doing something wrong? Does he ever want to marry me or am I wasting my time? We have discussed it but the answer is always ‘not yet’.