In love with a beauty? First weigh your purse
Jan 18, 2006
IN my interactions with women, I have come to a conclusion that they are not like houses. When you buy a beautiful house, you need a little money to improve it to your taste, but a poor house requires a lot of money to bring it to the standard you want.
IN my interactions with women, I have come to a conclusion that they are not like houses. When you buy a beautiful house, you need a little money to improve it to your taste, but a poor house requires a lot of money to bring it to the standard you want.
This is obvious. But it does not follow that when you date a very beautiful woman, your budget on salon, beauty parlours and wardrobe will be redundant. Actually, the more beautiful she is, the more money she will require for extra beautifying.
But if you are an urban resident, you certainly have wondered why the more beautiful a girl is, the greater the propensity to dress sexy. An attractive woman is supposed to get attention from men all the time... no matter what she is wearing. Yet, it is these women, who do not have to ‘add value’ to their beauty in order to attract men. Women go to the greatest heights to enhance their beauty with lotions, perfumes and provocative dressing.
A ‘perfectly’ beautiful woman will still spend 50% of her income on beautifying products, models spend half their time on improving their stature and women who are often told they are beautiful develop a habit of spending hours in front of the mirror before stepping out. (actually the more admirers a woman thinks she has, the longer she will stay in front of a mirror).
Why are these beauties spending all the available extra time to get that extra little bit of beauty, when they, according to you and me, already have more than enough?
Wonder no more. Humans rarely make sense after all, especially women (OK – I know men too have their strange points). Look at rich men! Don’t they spend sleepless nights planning to get more money? How about M7; isn’t he getting older faster in these campaigns when his win is a foregone conclusion?
How many of those who watched Arsenal wallop Boro wondered; “why seven if you can win with two?†Money, fame, power... you just cannot get enough.
But secondly, women always try to maximize their strengths in order to attract the best man.
At a party, where there are hundreds of men, a beautiful woman will crave for attention from the best of the males there – even if she came with a man and even if she doesn’t need to get another man. She wants an eyebrow of the best guy around to rise as she wades by; it is healthy for her self esteem.
Thirdly, though women will bring this as first, they do a lot of things because of competition from fellow women. I have said this before, a woman can tolerate anything – anything – except a fellow woman. Her dressing to kill may be designed to make all other women beside her look like a big joke. And attractive women tend to be very competitive.
When a smashingly dressed gorgeous woman walks into the room, women who will perceive her as exquisite will immediately feel uncomfortable and brand her proud. Because beautiful women are instantly seen as competitors, other beauties don’t want to see them.
Like campaigning leaders, they will hurl abuses at each other at the least opportunity. It is competition, intimidation and millions of years of evolution all rolled up into one special package. That is why beautiful women who are always getting attention and approval from men will get worked up when they meet a man who doesn’t seem to notice their presence.
That man becomes a puzzle that challenges them to crack his resistance. And that is why before you declare your manifesto to a gorgeous woman, first weigh your purse.
This is obvious. But it does not follow that when you date a very beautiful woman, your budget on salon, beauty parlours and wardrobe will be redundant. Actually, the more beautiful she is, the more money she will require for extra beautifying.
But if you are an urban resident, you certainly have wondered why the more beautiful a girl is, the greater the propensity to dress sexy. An attractive woman is supposed to get attention from men all the time... no matter what she is wearing. Yet, it is these women, who do not have to ‘add value’ to their beauty in order to attract men. Women go to the greatest heights to enhance their beauty with lotions, perfumes and provocative dressing.
A ‘perfectly’ beautiful woman will still spend 50% of her income on beautifying products, models spend half their time on improving their stature and women who are often told they are beautiful develop a habit of spending hours in front of the mirror before stepping out. (actually the more admirers a woman thinks she has, the longer she will stay in front of a mirror).
Why are these beauties spending all the available extra time to get that extra little bit of beauty, when they, according to you and me, already have more than enough?
Wonder no more. Humans rarely make sense after all, especially women (OK – I know men too have their strange points). Look at rich men! Don’t they spend sleepless nights planning to get more money? How about M7; isn’t he getting older faster in these campaigns when his win is a foregone conclusion?
How many of those who watched Arsenal wallop Boro wondered; “why seven if you can win with two?†Money, fame, power... you just cannot get enough.
But secondly, women always try to maximize their strengths in order to attract the best man.
At a party, where there are hundreds of men, a beautiful woman will crave for attention from the best of the males there – even if she came with a man and even if she doesn’t need to get another man. She wants an eyebrow of the best guy around to rise as she wades by; it is healthy for her self esteem.
Thirdly, though women will bring this as first, they do a lot of things because of competition from fellow women. I have said this before, a woman can tolerate anything – anything – except a fellow woman. Her dressing to kill may be designed to make all other women beside her look like a big joke. And attractive women tend to be very competitive.
When a smashingly dressed gorgeous woman walks into the room, women who will perceive her as exquisite will immediately feel uncomfortable and brand her proud. Because beautiful women are instantly seen as competitors, other beauties don’t want to see them.
Like campaigning leaders, they will hurl abuses at each other at the least opportunity. It is competition, intimidation and millions of years of evolution all rolled up into one special package. That is why beautiful women who are always getting attention and approval from men will get worked up when they meet a man who doesn’t seem to notice their presence.
That man becomes a puzzle that challenges them to crack his resistance. And that is why before you declare your manifesto to a gorgeous woman, first weigh your purse.