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Sep 13, 2011

<b>LK, leave your cheating husband</b><br>Last week, I read LK’s dilemma about her husband, who is having one affair after another and I’d like to advise her.

LK, leave your cheating husband
Last week, I read LK’s dilemma about her husband, who is having one affair after another and I’d like to advise her.

LK, I am sorry for what you have suffered. From what you wrote, I get a feeling you two hurriedly got married.

It seems that this man had selfish interests for marrying you, because he was not contented in having you as his only wife. It is disgusting that this man started cheating on you in the first year of your marriage, implying that by that time he had got what he wanted and was now running for the next catch.

It is interesting that both of you profess Jesus Christ as your Saviour and that your man calls himself a pastor, but this is not a reason to keep you in a marriage riddled with unfaithfulness. The Bible says in Genesis 2 that in marriage two people become one, but in your case it looks as if this has failed.

It also states in Mark 10:9 that what God has put together let no man separate, but it seems that in your case, it is not God who put you together, but your passion for each other. It seems that your husband has failed to love as Christ loved the church as in Ephesians 5:25-33 and this implies that your marriage may have not been authentic and the best option is for you to quit.

However, do this in a clear manner to avoid hurting your children, friends, husband and yourself. It is unfortunate that divorce will make you raise your children as a single mother, but if the divorce occurs in a good faith, God will give you the grace.

Finally, I would like to beg you to involve other parties in the divorce like parents and the pastor, who wedded you and friends so that this comes out clearly.
Emmanuel Matovu

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