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Festive woes: Do most girlfriends have ill intentions?

By Glorias Musiime

Added 6th December 2019 11:53 AM

To be specific, she informed her that she was expected to sexually satisfy one of the men, in one of the bedrooms.

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To be specific, she informed her that she was expected to sexually satisfy one of the men, in one of the bedrooms.

As the festive season draws nearer, partying is a must to many with either their friends, colleagues or distant relatives. But how well do you know these people?  

They may include your long lost diaspora friends who are willing to spend their hard-earned Kyeyo money and may times your only concern is how much of it they are willing to splash on you.

This season also sees social media lovers meet each other for the first time dates, including the ba summer who understand the game best.  

However, it is alleged that their game is not only splashing money but also sexually abusing women. 

Did you even know that the person you have been calling a friend could be a pimp? 

It’s important to note that no one can invite you for a drink without a reason. Each one of us has an interest protected, so you could end up paying for that drink in kind. 

Agnes Nansamba (Not real names) fell victim when her friend invited her for a house party in Makindye. An excited Nansamba didn’t object to the invite because this long lost friend was well known to her.

Over their phone conversation, the friend had mentioned a few names known to Nansamba, something that gave her more confidence. 

Being a non-drinker, she opted to sit and watch others dance, while she waited for her other ‘friends’ to turn up, something that didn’t happen. 

As the party went on, one by one, the ladies at the party were ushered into bedrooms at different intervals for what seemed like sexual affairs. 

“Little did I know that my long lost friend had only dialled my number after setting me up to one of her male friends,” said Nansamba. 

She said one of the men at the party started caressing her. She shoved him off asking what it is that he was trying to do. 

Her drunk friend sheepishly laughed at her. Staggering in all directions, she boldly told Nansamba that she was invited to the party because she had a role to play.

To be specific, she informed her that she was expected to sexually satisfy one of the men, in one of the bedrooms. 

Much as they had not been in touch for a long time, Nansamba had trusted her friend, only to realise that she was not the friend she knew three years ago. 

Luckily, Nansamba was able to escape the devil’s claws but many ladies have fallen victim. They have ended up being drugged and sexually abused. 

Safety tips Nansamba lives to tell the tale and has advised everyone to be careful who they hang out with during the festive season. 

She also noted that it is important to inform a close friend or relatives of your whereabouts. “You can even share the location or contact of the person who invited you,” she said. 

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