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Six months into our marriage, but no sex yet
Publish Date: Mar 28, 2014
Six months into our marriage, but no sex yet
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Today's problem

I have been married for six months now, but have not had sex with my husband. I am one of those that decided to abstain from sex till marriage. What do I do? I am 33, obviously not getting any younger, and want a full life before it is too late. I have tried to talk to my husband, but he does not want to talk about it. I am getting extremely frustrated.

What do I do?

Quick advice

You are right – at 33 and newly married, you guys should be tearing each other’s clothes off! Since you are not, there is something seriously wrong with him, and you have to talk about it. Has he got a sexual dysfunction he is hiding?

Or maybe he does not really like girls? You have a major problem on your hands, and you have to solve it like yesterday; talk to your parents, his parents, a doctor and a good lawyer, because at the end of the day you will probably need one. Too much of a good thing can be bad, including abstinence!


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