With me, he won't need another wife

May 22, 2009

Carol Ashemereirwe is an artiste and a presenter on the Kamu Kamu Programme on Blue Channel, UBC Radio. She is relating with a man of a different religion.

Carol Ashemereirwe is an artiste and a presenter on the Kamu Kamu Programme on Blue Channel, UBC Radio. She is relating with a man of a different religion. Pidson Kareire asked what she thinks about it.

How could you choose a man you don’t share a religion with?
I liked his behaviour. I knew he was Muslim, but his humility and maturity charmed me.

Are you ready to be one of the four wives?
But I am told that depends on the circumstances. For example, if the first wife fails to fulfil her responsibilities, the man may go for a second wife. And if the second also fails he goes for a third one until he gets what he wants. But for us this may not be necessary because I know what he wants

But every woman says that!
Oh really! It is also God’s plan. I just believe he is a genuine man sent by God. And if that is true, nothing can go wrong. But if things don’t work, I will let go because you cannot stick to something you cannot handle.

What do you mean?
I cannot share a man. It is just hard for me.

How did you meet?
I knew him before he was serious about our relationship. We always met at social functions; but one day we stayed together for sometime and got enough time to discuss many things. The discussion helped us to discover ourselves.

Did you then move in with him?
No. I don’t stay with him. We are courting; studying each other as I wind up with my studies. I am doing Bachelor of Arts in Environment at Makerere University.

Isn’t he jealous of you moving around with other male artistes most of the time?
There are men everywhere. So, dwelling on male workmates or friends gives a jealous man sleepless nights for nothing. Besides, unfaithfulness is someone’s nature. A person who wants to cheat will do so even if she is at home 24 hours. But I like him; he is free with whatever I do.

Are you saying many people today are cheats naturally?
They are not straight forward and others don’t know what they want. They live in fear; men fear women because of their funny behaviour, women, too, are sceptical about men. Women are the worst culprits. They have become so needy that they over stretch their generosity. They ask for so many things. They actually turn their dates into moving banks.

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